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Tuesday, May 6, 2008

May 1st 2008 - Family Bazaar






They came in scores and lined up in teams awaiting the doors to open. Nearly one hundred of them, bargain hunters, clamoring for the opportunity to scavenge through the items offered at the jumble tables and from vendors alike. As the day drew on, the lines subsided, but the numbers did not disappoint. With more than 500 tickets sold at the door and dozens of children, the day proved a hit for the families who came out in droves and a large success for ibu as it brought in over 15,000 MYR to the resource center! . Shopping to their hearts desire, several took advantage of the hotels luggage racks, carting their goods away by the trolley-load!
As if shopping alone wasn’t enough of an incentive to maintain the enthusiasm that marked the day; over 70 donated gifts from a variety of vendors and sponsors were given away in a series of lucky draws. Providing extra coverage for the vendors present, and offering further incentive for shoppers to linger, the lucky draw attracted a steady crowd of followers banking their luck on their tickets while their other halves emptied their wallets at the vendors’ tables. As the lucky draw did contribute so much to the day’s events, we would like the thank all of those who generously donated their items and gifts.
ibu’s largest annual fundraiser was indeed a success and that is in no small part due to the efforts of the multiple volunteers who dedicated their time and energies to coordinate, organize, staff, and conduct the event. Your gift of volunteerism is a most significant contribution to ibu as the resource center is a non-profit whose sustainability relies on the goodwill efforts of volunteers. Without your support and time, events such as this fundraiser would not be feasible nor would the various services and programs offered at the ibu house throughout the year. In recognition of volunteerism, special acknowledgement should be given to our vice chair, Nikki De’ Cruz, whose countless hours went into overseeing and managing the entire affair.
Because ibu is a nonprofit organization, it is no surprise that an event of this scale not only requires the coordination and efforts of dozens of volunteers, but also the sponsorship and support of commercial businesses. Therefore, our most heartfelt appreciation is extended to Expatriate Lifestyle for their promotion and advertorial support, the Westin Hotel for their venue, support staff, and complimentary refreshments, Richard Tong Balloons for their amazing balloon creations, Santa Fe Relocation Services for their assistance in transporting the jumble sale items, Fun Expresso , Da Vinci Creative Kids, and Kindergolf for keeping the children thoroughly entertained: FunExpresso for use of their bouncy castle, DaVinci Creative kids, for their coloring tables, and Kindergolf for their golf expo.
If you are a small business owner who would like to participate in next year’s family bazaar, please contact the ibu office to reserve a table early. This year’s demand far exceeded capacity, so get your name registered in plenty of time so as not to miss out on a great opportunity. And remember, you don’t have to be a small business owner to participate; volunteers are what really keeps the ibu family resource group functioning. If you have the time to spare or feel that you would like to contribute your energies to give back to an organization that may have assisted you in developing your social network within KL, please indicate your interest to Allison at the walk-in center or via telephone 03-2094-2234. Volunteer opportunities can be one off events such as the family bazaar or something on a weekly basis like representing a playgroup; either way, it’s always a rewarding and valued use of your time!

The Selfish Crocodile - 26th April 2008



28 kids and their parents enjoyed discounted rates by booking in advance with ibu, enabling us to get great discounts for the best seats. Look out for future offers, and book EARLY!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

ibu Family Day Out - The Agathians Shelter 12th April 2008

Family Day Out April 2008 must have been the most sombre day out so far for ibu kids and families. However, it was a visit that carried a lot of meaning, with many lessons to be learnt. Following up on the hugely successful charity drive that ibu conducted for The Agathians Shelter in November 2007, it was timely that a visit be made to the Shelter to meet the very boys many ibu members regularly contribute to.

The only auspicious thing about The Agathians Shelter is the road on which it is situated. Jalan 8/8. In Chinese, a very auspicious number indeed. There is nothing auspicious about this Shelter though. The broken sign hanging on the front gate tells the story of everything inside. Broken tiles, broken equipment, broken lives, broken hearts and broken dreams.

This is a Shelter where 30 abandoned, orphaned, neglected and under privileged boys aged 3 – 15 , mainly of Indian/Malaysian descent eat, sleep and live. The founder of the home, Siva, a delightful young man with a huge heart tries his best with the limited funds the shelter has. He and the other board members regularly delve into their own pockets to make ends meet. The regular donations of kitchen and toilet staples that ibu members donate go a long way, but with 30 boys and counting, its’ never enough.

Personally I was shocked that the home was not a bungalow or corner lot as many of these homes/refuges/shelters normally are. It is a tiny intermediate single story house. The mere sight of the house was sufficient to bring tears to ones eyes.

There were lines and lines of laundry hung up to dry, washed by one very hardworking washing machine. A brand new donated box freezer took pride of place outside in the front porch as a volunteer helped rig the electricity cables. Not a single toy in the home is what struck me the most. The kitchen is packed to the hilt. There is only ONE shower. And two bedrooms.




A few boys mingled around the house aimlessly, looking lethargic and upon further enquiry, the others we were told, could be found behind the house playing in the playground.

We took a stroll to the back where we found a group of young volunteers from AISEC playing games with the boys to improve their English skills. They come to visit the boys every two weeks and spend quality time with them.
(see www.aisec.org/malaysia/um for more info on these wonderful young people )

The kids gravitated back to the Shelter closer to lunch time and some mingled amongst us. Some were happy to see visitors, esp Jason and Brenda Boehm who brought newspaper articles of interest, and colouring sheets and crayons. One of the boys insisted I look at his prized possessions in a locker. It was so sad. There was only a bottle of powder and a few other articles. He made me take a photo of it, and promise I’d bring him a copy of it.

Soon, all the boys were asking for their photos to be taken! It seemed to make them really happy. They put on their best smiles, and asked to look at the picture in the viewfinder after. The whole time there, I had to control myself to not cry.


Lunch disappeared as fast as it was put out, the kids digging into the ‘pot luck’ that all of us brought. There was fried rice, fried beehoon, KFC and spring rolls. Dessert was cookies, oranges, cake and ice cream. Due to the lack of space in the shelter, the boys took their food into their rooms and ate on the floor.

Our visit was over pretty much after lunch was over, as the boys settled into the remainder of their colouring and playing caroms in one of the two bedrooms.


It didn’t feel like we were being asked to leave, it just felt like the kids knew that we would all soon leave to go back to our privileged lives, and they would return to theirs. A sad sense of quiet kind of overcame the home, so we excused ourselves and started to leave.



I promised I’d be back with the photos, and I will. The visit has left me with a renewed sense of gratitude for all I have in my life, and how lucky my daughter is, to never want for anything. When she is older, and old enough to understand, she will visit this Shelter and others like it. Just so she knows just how lucky she is!

The Agathians Shelter is ALWAYS in need. If you can spare anything, from one ringgit, to one bag of rice or more, it will help tremendously. ibu has a list of all the staples required. If you’d like to contribute from that list, or anything else, we can make it easier for you. Drop it off at ibu or call and someone can always come and collect it from you and deliver it to the home.

If you’d like to visit the home yourself, the address is : No.17, Jalan Tengas 8/8, Section 8, PJ 46050. Contact SIVA beforehand at 0122968014




Written by Karen Loong-Thomas ( Activities Coordinator )

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Parents Night Out - 10 April 2008

PARENTS NIGHT OUT APRIL 2008
JARROD & RAWLINS (DESA SRI HARTAMAS)
8pm 10th April 2008


13 members and friends showed up to this month’s Parents’ Night Out hosted by Jarrod & Rawlins. Yet not a man in sight! I honestly thought the draw card of a freshly cooked steak and a cold lager would have brought in the Dads. Nevertheless, the ladies enjoyed a night of steak, bangers and mash and sandwiches, downed by a few glasses or a few beers.

It was nice to meet new people, there were a few Kiwis at one end of the table, a smattering of Brits, 3 Malaysians, one MM2H-er, and quite a few Texans and Australians.

At one point when our table was getting too cramped, one contingent defected to another table and we ended up with two very intimate tables and conversation.

The staff at Jarrod & Rawlins tried very hard to accommodate our large group, and even agreed to do separate billing without the bat of an eye. ( rare in Malaysia – where special requests are usually looked upon as a big nuisance )

Service was not terribly speedy but every order came correct and with a cheerful smile. The staff however were camera shy and no one wanted to pose for my camera.

A big thumbs up to Jarrod & Rawlins for a very enjoyable, affordable, casual night out.



Next Parents Night Out will be at CHAMPS in CENTERPOINT BANDAR UTAMA. I hope to see you there!


JARROD & RAWLINS
36, JALAN 27/70a
DESA SRI HARTAMAS
50480 K.L

TEL: 20930708
(10am - midnight)

Monday, April 7, 2008

Easter Playgroup - 22 March 2008

Another beautiful sunny day in KL for yet another fun Special Themed Playgroup! The morning started with faithful ibu volunteers hiding over 200 lovingly dyed eggs all over the ibu house garden. ( many thanks to Nikki D’Cruz for saving all the blown-out eggs from her home-grown bakery! )

Fun in the ibu house meant a morning chock-a-block with activities. Egg painting, rabbit mask making, face painting and tattooes, followed by cupcakes for snacks whilst enjoying Easter themed stories by the enthralling Anne Ooi.

The highlight of the day was of course the egg hunt which even saw some littlies trying to beat the whistle to get a head start! As Malaysia is way, way too hot to do the traditional hiding candy in the eggs trick, we had to resort to giving out Easter chocolates and candy in the shade, in exchange for the eggs all our little hunters brought back to us.

Everyone went away happy with loads of candy good to last them at least a week!

Many thanks go out to the following persons who helped:

Alison D’Cruz
Rufa
Kate Healy
Nancy Boyd of Nakorn Sari in PJ for the great face painting
Melissa Smith
Lisa Reardon ( who helped out at the Crazy Candy Counter )
Mel ( my little helper ! )
Nikki D’Cruz
Paige Head
Anne Ooi ( for another great story )
And everyone who loaned me baskets!!
( and many apologies if I have left anyone out ! )


Written by Karen Loong-Thomas
ibu Activities Coordinator






















Saturday, March 15, 2008

Family Day Out - Taman Tun Dr Ismail Park 15.03.08





Hidden away on the fringe of TTDI ( an upmarket suburb of KL ) lies the TTDI Park. A very popular park with the locals, but often completely unknown to new arrivals into the country!

Family Day Out for March 2008 was meant to introduce this lovely well kept secret to ibu members who had never been here.

This park has a running / walking / pram friendly ( !! ) track of about 2.5km. It loops around the top of the park via a suspension bridge. The park itself meanders around a pond, little covered sitting areas, a Tai Chi platform, a playground (slightly in a state of disrepair) but the creme de la creme of this park has to be the waterfall ( even though it is man-made! I got a shock the first time i saw it being 'switched' on and off! ). This waterfall leads into the long stream that runs down the centre of this park. Full of tadpoles, mudskippers and other tiny fish, it is the main attraction for the little ones. Armed with a sieve, many can be seen desperately trying to catch something, anything to put into a jar!

Today's outing garnered 9 families with 16 kids in total! Starting out slowly, sitting on mats under a tree, many naturally gravitated towards the stream as it got warmer. Mums with babies too tiny to enjoy the stream stayed under the shade sipping lemonade and chatting. Dads were kept busy with kiddy cricket, bikes and balls.

Most of us left about 11am when it started to just get a little bit too warm. My daughter had a great time and was ready for a nap as soon as we got home! All in all, a lovely morning out.

If you didn't come this morning, do check it out for yourself. It's on Jalan Abang Haji Openg, if you are coming off the Penchala Link, its the 3rd left turn and just follow the road, it'll lead you straight to the park. Parking on weekends can be a bit difficult, but I always seem to get a spot. Try a week day morning one day - its' lovely!!

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Chinese New Year Playgroup 23 Feb 2008

Chinese New Year 2008 – The Year Of The Rat.

In comes ibu's 1st Special Themed Playgroup of the Year - The Chinese New Year Playgroup!

No, there were no firecrackers so we did not usher in the New Year with a bang, but we tried to do it with as much flair as possible!

All the children were greeted traditionally at the door and given the must-have item, the Ang Pow and two mandarins each.

The day got off to a slow start as families trickled in. But by 10.30am, the party was in full swing. In total the ibu house was packed with 25 kids and 24 parents.

Artwork was on hand to keep the artistically inclined ones busy. Chinese Fans and Lanterns were coloured, sparkled up, and stapled together by Mum or Dad.




For the younger ones, colouring Chinese designs on paper and the face painter, Camille kept them occupied.

A right spread was laid out for all the hungry little mice. This included pineapple tarts ( of course! ) love letters, peanut biscuits, jelly, mini mandarins and gorgeous Chinese themed cupcakes with Mice, Gold Coins and Auspicious Calligraphy on them!


A mid morning break with Anne Ooi our ever-so-enrapturing ( if there is such a word ) story teller, saw the children thrilled by a story involving a rat and a turnip.

And the highlight of the day was the ‘lion’ arriving at 11am. Since I personally remembered as a child, being scared silly of the whole lion dance performance, drums and all, I had instructed the troupe prior to the day that this performance had to be tailored to ‘little kids. I certainly had a hard time getting it across to them. They could not understand why I did not want the drums and all the instruments. Why was I opting to play a CD of Chinese music instead? ( I was too embarrassed to tell him the truth ) Anyway Danny the troupe leader finally got my drift, and I was very happy that it went the way it did on the day.

The ‘Lion’ entered the house slowly but surely, toyed with a few of the children and then headed straight to get his ‘Ang Pow’.

With great agility he removed, from a hook hanging up high, the red packet which was attached to a head of lettuce.

The Lion then lay down and proceeded to ‘munch’ on the lettuce. Suddenly it spat out the lettuce! It looked like a Caesar Salad!


The Lion then bowed down to eat a bucket of oranges. Wow it was a big bucket too. It seemed to take the longest time but actually what the guy inside the ‘Lion’ was doing, was stuffing all the oranges down his T-Shirt!

It then got up, and went around the room, to every single adult and child, laying a mandarin on its’ lip for us to remove from his mouth. I must say, some of our ibu kids were braver than their parents!

Once done, The Lion took a break and lay down on the floor to get its’ tummy scratched. Most of the kids were fearless, touching its’ head, tail, stroking it and looking down its’ mouth. Once all the kids were done, the lion made its’ exit. This signaled the end of the Playgroup.






This was a great way to introduce a Malaysian culture to all the ibu kids, local and expat. I am planning to do a Hari Raya and a Deepavali one too. But before then, I look forward to the next Special Playgroup which will be on the 22nd March – The Easter Playgroup. See you then!

Many thanks go out to the volunteers who helped make this day happen:

Kate Healy
Tammie Morris
Birgit
( who helped tidy up after all the fun was over )

Amelie Langdon ( Photography )

Paige Head
Phillipa Yoong
Melissa Smith
( who manned the tables )

Camille ( Face Painter )

Nikki Smith ( for the great cookies you baked ! )

and of course, Alison D'Cruz & Rufa for all the help.
apologies if I have unintentionally left anyone's names out.


Written by Karen Loong-Thomas
ibu Activities Coordinator

PHOTO GALLERY OF THE GORGEOUS KIDS WHO CAME! ( and their Mums and Dads of course! )


This little one has the honour of being the youngest ibu member there!